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Empty Kitchen, Fresh Start: How Moving Forced Us to Ditch Processed Foods

Sometimes the most powerful changes come from having no choice at all. When we moved to Wyoming, our kitchen started as empty as our preconceptions about cooking. No familiar boxes of stroganoff, no pre-made meals, no processed comfort foods – just empty cabinets and a decision to make.

I could have easily filled those cabinets with the same processed foods we’d relied on in Utah. You know the ones – just add water, stir, and dinner’s ready in 45 minutes. But standing in that empty kitchen, I saw an opportunity. Instead of slowly trying to phase out processed foods (which, let’s be honest, probably wouldn’t have happened), we could start fresh. Right here. Right now.

Was it an easy decision to make? Not exactly. Our family had been heavy users of processed foods – ‘it wasn’t even comical,’ as I recently told a friend. Our typical weekly meal prep used to involve shopping for pre-made or nearly-pre-made meals, collecting boxes where you just dump contents in a bowl, add some milk or water, and call it dinner.

Now? Our meals look completely different. Take our recent transformation of a family favorite – Chicken Bacon Ranch Casserole. The old version would have involved several processed ingredients. The new version? Fresh cauliflower instead of tater tots, real chicken, crispy bacon, and a carefully crafted ranch sauce. Yes, it takes longer than opening a box and adding water. But the flavors? Incomparable.

The biggest challenge hasn’t been the cooking itself (thanks to AI helping me transform recipes), but rather convincing the kids that these healthier versions are better than their processed counterparts. It’s a work in progress, but we’re getting there.

A typical dinner now starts with a recipe from my digital recipe box – but the process actually begins days before. Every Saturday, I plan our entire week’s menu, Monday through Sunday. This isn’t just about knowing what to cook; it’s about removing the daily decision-making and eliminating the temptation of processed foods.

Once the week’s menu is set, Monday becomes ordering day. I divide my shopping list between Walmart, Smith’s Food & Drug, and occasionally Amazon, scheduling pickup times for local stores and deliveries for shelf-stable items. This isn’t just convenient – it’s strategic. By avoiding physical stores, I eliminate impulse purchases of processed foods that might catch my eye on the shelves. No more wandering down the boxed dinner aisle and thinking ‘well, maybe just one for a busy night.’

Instead of boiling pre-made noodles for beef stroganoff, I’m searing fresh beef, crafting the sauce from scratch, and serving it over vegetable noodles. Yes, the 45-minute box meal has become a labor of love that takes longer, but the planning system makes it manageable. When dinner time arrives, there’s no question about what we’re eating or whether we have the ingredients – it’s all been planned and procured with purpose.

This advance planning has given me an unexpected gift: time. Those daily minutes (or sometimes hours) once spent staring into the pantry or refrigerator, trying to piece together dinner or running to the store for last-minute ingredients? They’re now freed up for other pursuits. I find myself with more time for writing, keeping up with household tasks, playing games with the family, or working on projects that had been otherwise pushed to the back burner in our previous life. It’s ironic that taking more time to cook has actually given me more time to live.

Here’s what I’ve learned: Sometimes having no choice is the best choice of all. Starting with an empty kitchen meant we couldn’t fall back on old habits. There were no familiar boxes calling our names from the pantry, no processed shortcuts tempting us during meal prep.

Would we have successfully transitioned away from processed foods if we’d tried to do it gradually in our old kitchen? Honestly, probably not. The convenience of those boxes, the familiar tastes, the easy routines – they’re hard to break away from when they’re right there in your cabinet.

But an empty kitchen? That’s an opportunity. An opportunity to fill it with purpose, with whole foods, with new traditions. Sure, dinner takes longer to prepare now. Yes, there are still nights when I miss the simplicity of adding water to a box. But watching my family eat real, whole foods, knowing exactly what went into every meal? That’s worth every extra minute.

Sometimes the best changes in life come from having no choice but to leap forward. Our empty Wyoming kitchen turned out to be more than just empty space – it was an empty canvas, ready for a whole new way of feeding our family.

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The Roundhouse Halloween

Tommy adjusted his conductor’s cap and checked that his little sisters were keeping up. At ten, he took his role as big brother seriously, especially on their first Halloween in Evanston. The old western town looked different in the dark, with carved pumpkins casting flickering shadows on wooden porches and fake cobwebs stretching between hitching posts.

“Tommy, my boots are blinking!” eight-year-old Sarah announced, stomping her light-up cowgirl boots on the wooden sidewalk. She twirled, making her leather vest and denim skirt spin.

“Shh!” five-year-old Emma whispered dramatically, her western princess crown tilting. “You’ll scare the ghost trains!” She’d been fascinated by stories of the old roundhouse since they’d moved here, especially after their neighbor told them about phantom train whistles on Halloween night.

Little Amy, just three and adorable in her black cat costume, clutched Tommy’s hand. “Train?” she asked, pointing toward the looming shape of the roundhouse in the distance.

“Not yet, Amy,” Tommy said. “We need to get candy first.” He consulted the trick-or-treat map Dad had drawn. They had permission to do the historic district near their house, as long as they stayed together and were home by eight.

The first few houses were everything they’d hoped for. One old lady gave out full-size candy bars from her wraparound porch. A man dressed as a prospector had decorated his yard like an old mine shaft. Even the local bookstore was open, offering spooky stories along with treats.

But as they turned onto Railroad Street, Emma tugged Tommy’s sleeve. “Look!” she whispered.

Through the evening fog, they could see lights moving around the roundhouse. Not the usual security lights, but softer, lantern-like glows that seemed to drift between the old train bays.

“It’s probably just the security guard,” Tommy said, though he wasn’t quite sure.

Sarah’s boots twinkled as she bounced excitedly. “Can we go look? Please?”

“Dad said to stick to the map,” Tommy reminded them, but then they all heard it – a distant train whistle, deep and echoing, even though no trains ran on these tracks anymore.

Amy’s eyes went wide. “Ghost train!”

Tommy looked at his watch. They had forty minutes before they needed to head home. The roundhouse was only a block away, and the street leading to it was well-lit with Halloween decorations.

“Okay,” he decided, “but we stay together. And at the first sign of anything scary, we leave.”

They walked toward the roundhouse, their treat bags rustling. As they got closer, they could see the moving lights more clearly. They looked like old-fashioned railroad lanterns, swaying gently in the fog.

Suddenly, Sarah grabbed Tommy’s arm. “There’s someone there!”

A figure emerged from the fog – an elderly man in an old-fashioned railroad uniform. He smiled warmly at them.

“Well, if it isn’t a junior conductor and his crew!” he called out. “Here for the Halloween tour?”

Tommy hesitated. “Our dad says we shouldn’t talk to strangers.”

The man nodded approvingly. “Smart rule. I’m Mr. Johnson, the roundhouse museum caretaker. We’re doing special Halloween tours tonight. Your parents can come check it out first if you’d like.”

Before Tommy could respond, they heard familiar footsteps behind them.

“There you are!” It was Dad, slightly out of breath. “I thought I might find you here. The neighbors said you’d want to see this.” He turned to Mr. Johnson. “Evening, Bill. I see my crew found your Halloween display.”

“Just in time,” Mr. Johnson smiled. “We’re about to light up the old steam engine.”

They followed Mr. Johnson and Dad into the roundhouse, where volunteers in period costumes were leading tours. The centerpiece was a restored steam engine, decorated with pumpkins and twinkling lights. The mysterious lanterns they’d seen were being carried by tour guides, sharing stories of the railroad’s history.

Emma was delighted to learn that her “ghost trains” were actually recordings played through hidden speakers, part of the museum’s Halloween atmosphere. Sarah’s boots twinkled as she danced around the turntable, and even little Amy got to sit in the engineer’s seat, her cat ears peeking out the window.

As they walked home later, treat bags full and hearts content, Tommy smiled at his sisters. Their new town might be old, but it had its own kind of magic. Emma was already planning next year’s costume – a ghost conductor, of course.

“Ghost train?” Amy asked sleepily from Dad’s arms.

“Not ghost trains,” Tommy corrected gently. “Just history coming alive for Halloween.”

But as they turned onto their street, a distant train whistle echoed through the fog. Tommy looked back at the roundhouse, its windows now dark. Just for a moment, he thought he saw a lantern light swaying in one of the empty bays.

Some mysteries, he decided, were better left for next Halloween.

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Empty Kitchen, Fresh Start: How Moving Forced Us to Ditch Processed Foods

“From processed to purposeful: A family’s journey to healthier eating. 🥗🍳

Ever wondered what happens when you strip away all the convenience foods and start from scratch? This Friday, I’ll be sharing our family’s unexpected transformation after moving to Wyoming with nothing but empty kitchen cabinets.

Discover how we went from boxed dinners to home-cooked meals, and the surprising benefits that came with this change. It wasn’t always easy, but it was worth it!

Stay tuned for a story of culinary adventure, family challenges, and the power of starting fresh. #HealthyEating #FamilyMeals #ComingSoonFriday”